Dialectical Behavior Therapy

Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) is a type of therapy that helps you learn skills to manage overwhelming emotions, improve relationships, and feel more in control of your thoughts and actions. It’s especially helpful if you often feel emotionally intense, experience mood swings, or struggle with things like self-harm, anxiety, or feeling misunderstood in relationships. The word “dialectical” means learning to hold two truths at once—like accepting yourself as you are and working toward positive change. In DBT, we focus on finding that balance.

In DBT, you’ll learn practical skills in four key areas: mindfulness (being present in the moment), distress tolerance (getting through tough times without making things worse), emotion regulation (understanding and managing your emotions), and interpersonal effectiveness (communicating clearly and setting boundaries). Over time, these skills can help you feel more confident, connected, and capable of handling life’s challenges. DBT is structured, supportive, and designed to help you create a life that feels more stable, meaningful, and aligned with your values.

Some Issues DBT Therapy May Help You:

  • Emotion regulation difficulties

  • Intense mood swings

  • Chronic feelings of emptiness or loneliness

  • Self-harm and suicidal thoughts or behaviors

  • Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)

  • Anxiety and panic disorders

  • Depression

  • Impulsivity and risky behaviors

  • Difficulty managing stress and frustration

  • Problems with interpersonal relationships

  • Trauma and PTSD symptoms

  • Substance use and addiction

  • Eating disorders

  • Difficulty with mindfulness and staying present

  • Challenges with setting and maintaining healthy boundaries

How do I know if DBT is the right therapy for me?

Deciding if DBT is the right therapy for your fertility journey depends on what you're experiencing emotionally and how you're coping day to day. DBT might be a good fit if you’re feeling overwhelmed by intense emotions like anxiety, sadness, anger, or hopelessness—especially if those emotions feel hard to manage or are affecting your ability to function or make decisions. If you often find yourself shutting down, lashing out, feeling emotionally “all over the place,” or struggling to communicate your needs with others (including your partner, family, or doctors), DBT can offer concrete skills to help you feel more in control and supported.